Several years ago, my niece told me in Spanish and roughly translated into English: "I don't think I'm pretty, so I will never have a boyfriend."
I told her immediately that her beliefs about her beauty had nothing to do with having a boyfriend.
Very few people realize that her statement would only be valid if she was going to have a relationship with he…
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